Hi Brent,
The "Neutral" position your talking about is the ssame concept that GM and others use.
These engines do not have an idle air Control pathway and depend on the throttle plate position to control the idle.
That being said, they let it rest out and away from the "Closed" position so that when the engine is started there is more than enough air flowing to start the engine. Once the engine is running the ECU idle's the engine down by closing the throttle plate to an idle position.
If you look at the readings with an ecu scanner, you will see that the idle position of the throttle plate is closer to a closed position than when the engine is off.
What some of us do is check the idle position while running, some have said that they do that while the engine is cold so that the plate angle is farther out than the "warm idle" position which reduces the risk of being to close and causing idle issues.
As an example, my 2007 Avalanche 5.3L has a "Neutral/off" position of 31 degrees, yet the warm idle position is closer to 18 degrees. I would cut mine at the 20 degree position to keep the idle stable.
What you should be finding is that when you are driving that it should take very little pedal to make things go.
And by the way... Grandma's the one you gotta watch for the lead foot...
Karl Fortner
Tacoma, Washington