I’m going to make an educated guess as to what’s happening with your car: if the throttle plate damage is any indication, you grooved too close to the “closed” or “hot idle” throttle position and the computer is freaking out at not being able to balance the air coming in to the fuel it’s programmed to deliver at idle. You need to move that groove downstream, closer to where the throttle body and intake manifold mate. That’s usually about 1/8” or 3/16”...maybe 1/4”. Not much, but as I’ve been telling people in other topics/threads, it’s #allthesmallthings.
The good news is you can probably salvage the TB and regroove it. Mix up enough JBQuick to fill the groove you’ve cut, apply it, let it dry/cure for the full time the package says, and search the forums for the “business card trick”. You’ll have to approximate and guess where the butterfly is supposed to rest at idle, but you can make a pretty accurate educated guess once you’ve done your research. All the info is here - we’ve faced and fixed issues like this on many other cars before. Including my own!!