JV I use a wire-type plug gap guage or a round disc shaped oue with the tapered ramp on the side. I also then use pliers carefully to center the ground electrode over the center electrode.
But for a gap like 81 thou, maybe ya needed the flat feeler guages!
What brand/type plugs are those, platinum, Irridium,?? That one looked real bad, lotsa miles on those, or other issues, water/coolant getting in the chambers, water/oil emulsion from pcv/breather system, or??? Think I've seen pics like this the plug mfg's called it ash fouling, from ???
But if she runs OK after doing this, then that's OK!
Is this the same car w/ the throttle plate you just re-shaped?
Looks Asian valve cover to me.
Let us know what car and results, Thanks!
Tracy G