Where to start? I know this is an old post, but I think it might be helpful for others if I add some insight.
First, the upstream O2 sensor is an AFR sensor. Neither the Narrow Band (NB) nor the Wide Band (WB) EFIEs will work. That's the bad news. For the good news, using a 15 ohm resistor in the Blue wire coming off the sensor will create a richer reading. You don't actually want to cut into the sensor wire, cut into the vehicle wire that corresponds to the blue wire. Many Toyotas use the AFR sensors as well. Some of them use a Green signal wire instead of blue. As a side note, GM uses blue signal wires on their NB sensors. Careful there.
Next, I know you said you replaced the DS O2 sensor. Great. The question posed is which one to use. ONLY EVER REPLACE OXYGEN SENSORS WITH OEM FACTORY UNITS!! When it comes to oxygen sensors, NEVER use aftermarket replacements, on ANY year-make or model. PERIOD! Ask me how I know?!?
Next, if you cut the downstream O2 heater circuit wire (one of the 2 white wires) (again vehicle harness side of the connector) and solder in a 1/2 ohm 1/2 watt resistor, that will raise the cat temp threshold. When the cat gets a little cool, the ECU dumps fuel to wake it up.
Finally, there is the new MAPster that is applicable to this Honda. If you don't know what that is, contact Ron.
Hope this helps.
Mike